Surfinc, you're just making seed for your own stash right? You have to make the original F1 cross to start pheno hunting for the result you want. I say, make a branch of seed on each of your girls using your chosen male (just a branch, don't pollinate the whole plant), and then start hunting the seeds for your "dream" pheno. These are for your own use right? No plans to vend right? If that's the case, make the seed you want.
It's all a crap shoot, as you can't control how the genes combine in the seed, all you can do is grow them and hope for the results you want. If you link to my blog I'm right now talking about how to use the bread bag method of pollination, maybe it will help you. link is in my sig.